Friday, October 3, 2014

Mother Asks Judge Not To Recognize Late Son's Marriage To Another Man

An Alabama mother has asked a federal judge not to recognize her late son's marriage to another man.
Paul Hard and Charles David Fancher married in 2011 in Massachusetts.

Roughly 3 months after the wedding, Fancher was killed in a car crash north of Montgomery, which led to a wrongful death case.
Alabama officials have refused to recognize the marriage. Fancher's death certificate lists him as unmarried.
Hard sued the state, asking a federal judge to force Alabama officials to issue a corrected death certificate for Fancher that lists him as the surviving spouse.
Pat Fancher, Charles Fancher's mother, intervened in the case and asked the court not to recognize her son's out-of-state marriage. She is represented by the Christian conservative group Foundation for Moral Law.
“This claim is contrary to Alabama state law,” Ms. Fancher's attorneys wrote. “It is Defendant Fancher's opinion that Plaintiff's requested injunction, if granted, will violate the millennia-old institution of marriage as ordained by God.”
At a news conference in February to announce the lawsuit, Hard said that hospital workers refused to acknowledge his marriage and that he learned of his husband's passing from a hospital orderly after about a half-hour of inquiries.
The Southern Poverty Law Center (SPLC), which is representing Hard, said at the time that Hard is entitled to proceeds from the wrongful death case.
“The only purpose of refusing Paul the right to share in the proceeds from the wrongful death lawsuit is to punish him for having married a man, and to express moral disapproval of this choice,” said David C. Dinielli, deputy legal director for the SPLC.

This is precisely why the debate over marriage equality is so important.
Fanchers mother, obviously bitter because she couldn't control who her son loved, has decided to try and do so after his untimely death.
Her total lack of regard for her sons wishes and for the love he shared with his partner, speaks volumes about the woman.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Very sad and it happens time and time again when the families of a deceased LGBT person refuses to recognize how the deceased lived, love and chose to be. The funerals are horrific, the families were never part of the person's life and control everything in death especially the assets that they swoop down upon like vultures.