Wednesday, September 19, 2012

US: Bisexual pride day could officially become a reality in Berkeley

Kriss Worthington, City Councillor, proposed the pride day, saying that he hopes it will encourage people to organise social events, forums, or other events, SFGate reported. 
“Bisexuals can experience prejudice from both directions,” said Councillor Worthington, “increasing bisexual visibility is a way of saying, yes, they do exist, and they deserve our support and acceptance.”
If approved by the City Council, the event would take place on September 23, the same day as bisexual pride events in other US cities, but Berkeley would be the first to officially recognise the day.
Martin Rawlings-Fein, a director of the Bay Area Bisexual Network, said that bisexuals can get flak from the gay community because of a perception that they have ‘straight privilege’. He said:
“We get pushed to the side in the LGBT community and told we don’t exist, that we’re actually gay or lesbian and just not totally ‘out.’ ”
The executive director of San Francisco Pride, Brendan Behan, also commented:
“Berkeley’s doing a great thing,” he said. “Unfortunately, even in our own community, bisexuals can be invisible. I’ve seen bisexuals outright dismissed because of their sexuality.”
A former Berkeley zoning board chair, Nancy Carleton, who is also bisexual, emphasised the importance of the potential change:
“Certain parts of the LGBT community get lots and lots of attention, and certain parts just get lumped in,” she said. “We’re just a tag-on on the longer list.”
“The more we can learn about each other, the more tolerance grows,” she said. “This gives the LGBT community a little spark.”
At first, I was rather annoyed with this article, but fuck it, let 'em have it their way.
Since they want too be considered separately from the gay community, I say, give them their wish.
It's not like I know a single bisexual male who is in a long term, committed same sex relationship, and that's saying something considering how old I am and how many bisexual males I've personally known throughout my many years on this little blue marble. 
Does this lump me into the biphobic crowd...probably, but I don't give a shit what they think anyway.
I'll even give 'em a shove in the right direction and offer them their own pride flag.
I certainly don't think it appropriate for them to use the rainbow flag, since they might become pigeonholed as a fucking homo or something.
I'll also go one step further, from this day forward (at least on this blog) the *B* shall be removed from LGBT whenever this group is referred too.
We *don't* have a choice on what gender we fall in love with and I see no real reason they should be burdened with the stigma of anyone confusing them with being a homo, when generally speaking, they are the first to remind us that they aren't.

  

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